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Divorce and the Older Woman
Woman of the House
After my divorce I was suddenly “head of household.” I decided right then and there that I would take on that role wholeheartedly. Contrary to what some may believe, most divorced older women aren’t giving up on life. Many are seeing their new single-status as a vehicle for self-discovery, change and growth.
At first, when I thought about the magnitude of the task that had been bestowed upon me, I was scared to death, but at the same time excited by the challenge of forging a new identity as a single woman. Don’t get me wrong, there were some very dark days, and times that I just wanted to just give up. But I never lost sight of the light at the end of the tunnel, because I knew that if God brought me to it, He would bring me through it.
Now, I am my own woman, with my own home and a budding business. I am also looking forward to getting married again, but as for now, I am taking a much needed time-out for me and my children. I believe that it’s important for me to know who I am, and my purpose before I invite someone else into the picture.Besides, I am still enjoying the sense of satisfaction that comes from being able to stand on my own two feet. This whole experience has really prepared me for the journey ahead, and has strengthened me in ways that I never thought possible.
Life is full of surprises and you have to be prepared when they happen. When you find yourself on an unexpected path, don’t panic, stay calm and listen to that quiet voice inside of you. Let it guide you to where God wants you to be. You may be surprised where you end up.
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